well i have to say i agree with 4angels on the age thing - but that is purely a personal opinion - i know now at 42 i would not want to have a baby that would mean a 10 year old would have a 52 year old mum as i would like to more able to be more active - but thats just me - not condemming older mums - i know people that have had a family then had a later baby and it does seem to be a bit harder work, but they are more relaxed about the whole thing and say that they felt they were far more chilled with the later baby than they were with their older kids.
for me the early years were kind of a blur as my 3 lads were almost a year apart so having 3 under 3 was hard work and adding in the chaos of additional needs because of the aspergers made it a very demanding time, quite frankly it was a bit of a blur - I know that as the kids got older and I was working full time and sometimes part time and my hubby being as much use as a chocolate fireguard, takeaways became an integral part of our lives as it was just one less thing to think about. - i know that it may sound like i am making excuses but i had never even had a takeaway before i met my husband lol - i am not blaming him he didnt exactly hold a gun to my head lol - i just fell into the habit and food was comfort. i felt like i was pregnant for 3 years and year on year the weight crept up but that was more lifestyle than the actual pregnancy
lol as usual i have done another huge post - i hope that helped - sorry you had to wade through the waffle lol